You may find that you’re not even honest with yourself about what you want because it can be so painful to admit that you want something that you may not be able to have.
This is not a good foundation for any relationship.
On the other hand, if you’re genuinely confused and bothered by the ambiguity, it’s time to do some soul searching.
It’s hard to open a conversation of this type, especially if you suspect that the two of you do not have similar desires (but then it’s even more important to talk! Being vulnerable can be scary because we don’t want to be hurt and we don’t want to hurt anyone.
It’s awkward, but I’ve found it is useful just to come out and say, “Mr. I feel as though we’re heading in X direction, and I am happy with that. More realistically, you’re going to have at least slightly different ideas about both the current status and the future of your relationship.
By being honest with yourselves and with one another, the two of you can determine if this is a connection that can work for both of you, and what actions you may need to take to ensure that you are both happy and taken care of.
You’ve been seeing a Leo man for quite some time, but things are somewhat sporadic. However, that won’t actually answer the question because the term “dating” can mean many different things to different people.
While you obviously enjoy time with one another and you’re very compatible in the bedroom, you may only see one another a few times a month. For this article, we’re going to assume that the word “dating” implies an intention to spend time with someone with the ultimate goal of forming a close, romantic bond.