There are a lot of lonely people on those sites and they fall prey to the game players and believe every word they say. If they did what they did online and they dont like the results they should wake up and shut thier computer off, 0therwise they got what they wanted. (Unless you arnt using a proxy or post it in a social network of course) On the other hand I do agree most sites are full of obnoxious trolls..... I really don't like to cam in THAT way because you have no control over the "footage" at the other end - someone could archive whatever you do and upload it publicly without your permission.. People can fall prey to the many players and users that haunt these sites. I have seen people talk about recording quite innocent activities, so it's obvious the same thing can happen with any sexual activity..
Of course, not all sections of a web cam site will be sex rooms, but it does tend to become a little incestuous, when prople who chat fully dressed, in some rooms, will become sexually active, with the same people, in other rooms. If you throw yourself out there and someone doesnt appreciate it, well then they should just go away. However if someone is begging for sex, maybe that is what they are into. The only thing you are right about IMO is it is the internet, and that is why anyone who is the least bit smart knows it will always remain thier dirty little secret. People can act the way that makes them happy, online, then return to thier normal life. Is it really true freedom, to behave, act, do things, in a manner, people would not consider doing, in everyday life.
One could go round and round with this, it's really a case of what is too much and what is taking people away from their real lives...that does happen...a lot.
I'm not saying that web cam sites are wrong...one bit..the way they can end up getting used and how people can end up being fooled by someone they may think a great person, but in reality, they can know nothing about them. I really don't like to cam in THAT way because you have no control over the "footage" at the other end - someone could archive whatever you do and upload it publicly without your permission..
To pay to use your own web cam and believe the business blurb from the site owners, that one is paying for the privilege of viewing the cams of others, becomes an absurd outlook, for if everyone is paying, the business blurb means nothing and is cancelled out.
As for people waking up and realising that it's all a con, a fantasy.....that's the point..don't.
Its best not to ever show/do anything on cam that you wouldnt want shared.
You'll meet many others just like you in our support forums.
Our community is very active and has been online for over twelve years. We have plenty of light hearted and fun chill-out areas. When we started we were absolutely amazed by the response.
There are obviously a lot of women feeling like us out there.
And we really hope we can help even if it is just an ear to listen or a bit of advice.
One thing's for sure, you'll certainly make some friends along the way !