She said her current boyfriend is “too young, too naive” (a reference to a 2000 press conference in which former Chinese president Jiang Zemin criticized a reporter who asked a tough question) thanks to the “one-sided” China news he learned from western media.Her boyfriend is always reading some “banned stuff” on the internet, she said, and then recklessly talking about it on the street in Shanghai. The “banned stuff” includes the 1989 Tiananmen Square Massacre, the Dalai Lama, Falun Gong, and violence in Muslim-majority Xinjiang region, topics which are heavily censored by the Great Firewall.To read information about these topics from outside China’s borders, her boyfriend need to use a VPN service.She agrees with his theory that China’s government policies contributed to those incidents, but not with his policy of publicly complaining about it.It all depends upon you including your attitude and actions.In order to find your life partner and soul mate among thousands of Chinese women just take every step of online dating seriously.
The following are some tips on different occasions. Being late for dates needs with Chinese girlfriend needs an apology and often a reason for the tardiness.“Even if I know what he says is right, what can I do? “Can I use my own power to fight against a clique like this?” Ultimately, what it comes down to is “he thinks we’re stupid, while we think he is,” she said.The real “danger” of love between a Chinese woman and a foreign man is that it doesn’t ultimately go anywhere, the women I talked to said.The opposing political views of May Xu, 24, who works for a Spanish head hunting firm in Shanghai, and her Spanish ex-boyfriend, who she met at work, were reflected in just one sentence.