It’s only the 10th century BCE here in Arabia and religion hasn’t been invented yet, and there are no scrolls from Gilgamesh addressing this topic. Even bigger than deciding between steak and seafood, corduroys and jeans, Coachella and Bonaroo, Audi and BMW.And it makes the orphans at the caravansarai so happy. Once you have it, you’re better off listening to scientists like John Gottman who really know what happens on that planet.
Divorce is a terrible, awful, miserable thing — especially if there are worldly goods and children involved.Heck, you’ve seen parts of the brains of your googly-eyed buddies splatted on the sidewalk as they mumble ‘yes dear’ while carrying Macy’s shopping bags, and it ain’t pretty. It tends to peak early, then decline — regression to the mean. If the crazy love has worn off but you just really like having her around, and imagine a life with her is a hell of a lot better than a life without her, and you can tell she’s going to make a fine mother for your children, then go for it.Marriage is a vast edifice deserving of a strong foundation. Nobody goes to the altar ) and concede that, in this country, you’ve got a 50-50 shot that this is going to work.3) Consult your buddies before making the final decision.Even though I said that you shouldn’t get married when you’re in love, you’re still going to do that. Santa Claus is a figment of the imagination, a fanciful mental construct with no basis in reality. You know what else is a fanciful mental construct that has no basis in reality?