I also had two men in the last year who were deperately trying to get me to commit sooner than seemed normal.
They were controlling and basically losers in past relationships and life in general. My assessment was that they wanted a healthy normal person to validate their craziness.
Are these men just so desperate that they don’t understand the fundamentals of dating? I’m sure all the women who are waiting by the phone for their dates to call are feeling particularly bad for you. It wouldn’t be too unreasonable for you to get excited about him being the future father of your children.
I kid, Leah, because it’s about as ironic as any dating situation can be. Of course, if he’s already a father of two, and also recently divorced, he might not be ready to dive back into a committed relationship. That’s simply two good people who may be compatible, but are not a good fit at the time.
bluntmonkey.It’s one of the top reasons men end things before they begin: a woman overstepped her boundaries.
He needs to know that you need him and that he's enhancing your already great life. Well, consider this: a good man — one who is confident, mature, and relationship-minded — wants to give to a woman and make her happy. Did you think that the less you expected from a man, the more he'd like you?What I don’t understand is why they get so obsessive.I’m a divorced mother with two young children, but I am not looking for someone to “rescue” me.