She texts me from the kitchen to tell me she loves me. And women complain that men aren’t stepping up to the plate.But texting MUST be the icing; it can’t be the cake. They’re right in one regard – texting is a shitty form of communication.The real issue is that texting is ubiquitous and it’s not going anywhere soon.Instead of using it as a way to say hi or let you know he’s running late, it becomes a crutch for real relationship communication.
I’ve had girls get back to me THREE DAYS LATER…even THREE MONTHS LATER, “Yeah. Most hot women have men orbiting on standby, dicks in hand. What incentive does he have to step up to the plate if he can get away with a minute of phone foreplay? Insist on being treated that way.“Aw, Jeff, you’re adorable. Press the little green dial button and see what happens!But if you want to see me, you’re gonna have to try a little harder. ”You seem like a good guy, Alan, but I’m not looking for a texting buddy, I’m looking for a boyfriend. Take care.” Don’t be afraid that you’re losing your potential boyfriend. You’re freeing yourself of the burden of waiting for an indifferent man to show you he cares. And since all you’ve done is text me twice a week for the past six weeks without any increased effort, I’m going to take that as a sign that you’re not that interested in a relationship. If he cared about you, he’d WANT to call you, WANT to see you, WANT to commit to you. I have answers on this page, but if you’re really desperate?