The white guys guide to dating black women

Several years ago I was hanging out with a friend who happened to be white.We were enjoying a live band when the guitarist (who was white) looked and smiled in our direction during the set.

While it may be hard for two people from widely different intersections of race and gender to understand each other, it’s not impossible once the more privileged party (in this case, the white guy) is able to recognize their shortcomings and how the intersections of race and gender affect every aspect of a black woman’s life.The wingman walked up to me as his friend stood beside him and screamed over the music, “You’re perfect!My friend likes black girls, but he doesn’t like them too dark!Once, I was at a bar with friends when two white men approached me.One was a guy who was interested in talking to me, and the other was acting as his wingman.