Everything from people’s addresses to engagement announcements, to someone selling an engagement ring on Craigslist,” Alexander said. “Ask if they have ever been arrested,” Thurber suggested.
“This stuff can lead to learning who the person really is.” (And maybe how old they It may be tempting to schedule the first date via text message. Talking by phone will help you get a feel for the person, Thurber said. (No doubt, a bold question, and the person could lie.
Sure, it seems like a lot of work — unless something actually goes wrong.2.
Go easy on the alcohol Sorry for the buzzkill, but Fisher advises making the first date alcohol free. Trent Thurber, who works on the Los Angeles County Sheriff’s Department’s high-tech task force, suggested limiting alcohol and added, “Don’t let someone bring a drink to you unless you see it come straight from the bar or waitstaff.” (“Since the beginning of 2015, there have been 85 reported incidents of rape by intoxication” in Los Angeles County, he said.)This goes beyond what you reveal to a Tinder date.
You are under no obligation to meet someone, regardless of how long you’ve been chatting to them, and, if you feel under any sort of pressure to do so, it’s time to move on.
You don’t want personal details, such as your address, or precisely where you plan to be on Saturday night, floating around out there on social media.
The same goes for being picked up in their car from your house.
No one needs to know your home address within twenty-four hours of knowing you.
If you’re a millennial dating in 2017, chances are you or someone you know is on some kind of app.
And although dating online can sometimes feel like a “Groundhog Day” loop of bad match after bad match, diversifying your watering hole online — as in life — has the power to dramatically change...