The Vietnamese family will support their child's family anyway they can and make sure you have a good wedding, so if they need help and you can do it, it is a normal thing to help. They will always say the truth, please don't doubt her. You don't need to snoop around her phone or what she is doing.Nobody will judge you on not helping, but your wife will sure stand by her family when they need her. She knows she is married and will not want to do anything that will hurt your feelings. She will definitely comply Hey, chill out, Vietnamese girls are not robot.They will love you, but let them have a say, they are not machines and will prove it if you are turning to a dictator in your relationship.You don't need a lawyer to spell out your do's and don'ts. Domestic Goddess: If you want a lady that will serve you delicious and home-made meals. Your Mcdonald, KFC and lotteria days are getting over.Definition of loyalty giving or showing firm and constant support or allegiance to a person or institution.synonyms:faithful, true, true-hearted, tried and true, true-blue, devoted; The above bolded words are the definition of a typical Vietnamese lady.A lot of culture had defined dating as a way to get laid anytime, and marriage is about getting laid, having kids and walking out of it when you are bored of each other.A lot of men had noticed this in other countries, and most of relationship problems comes from spouses that are not loyal.
Outside of Vietnam, a lot of people had divorced because they could not trust whoever they had given their love to.
Vietnamese girls are not gold-diggers, but if you show a low-class lady a pile of gold, she will dig it... I have heard a lot of foreigners in bar talking about marrying a Vietnamese girl requires you to marry the family, This is not true at least from my experience.
If you want to help, that is great, she will not make it a priority or makes you feel you should do that.
Don't insult the family value of a the Vietnamese lady.
They love and cherish their family and will stay with them during their difficult period.